My Biggest Resolution

It's that time again. We all scurry to make a list of "things to change," "things to fix," and "things to do better." While striving to do better is vital in living a successful life, there is one thing that this whole world could do TOGETHER that would make the world a better place. I'll get to that in a minute but first; let me share my few resolutions with you.

In no particular order:

- I want to have a positive attitude, even when I feel in the dumps. My smile may be the only bright thing that someone sees all day, week or even month. I have so much to be thankful for that I should always find the good in the situations life throws my way.

- I don't want to be easily manipulated and I don't want to make excuses for those who refuse to take responsibility for their actions. I do this much to often. I try to water down other people's actions, those actions foolish and at times, selfish. These actions may make perfect sense to one on a personal level, but even when I cannot relate, I feel the need to make excuses for people. I try to make sense of everything, which can be a good quality to have to an extent. In this context, it is only a hinderance for self-growth.

- I want to embrace change; not run from it. I am almost a 21 year old grown woman. I find myself so excited about what the future holds for me. I can barely contain the love for the fact that the things I have worked towards my whole life, are more accessible to me at this independent age. The only thing standing in the way of me reaching my full potential is that of terrifying, yet often welcoming, change. I choose to embrace this action of change; no longer hide from it.

- The resolution that means the most to me, however, is this: I want to love people the way God intended me to love people. I've said it before, but our country lacks empathy. I long to pour my love into everyone that I come in contact with. I want to make sure that nobody walks away from a conversation or encounter with me and feels "less than." I have people in my life that are havens of acceptance and I want to be that safe haven for others. I dare not point out someone else's flaws because mine are just as blatantly obvious.

With all of this being said, I hope you are encouraged to keep the course of this marathon called "life." Self-improvement does not come overnight. Take it day by day. Step by step. I am just learning how to do this, let's take the rolls and punches together. Much love and HAPPY NEW YEAR!

- TL